THE
ENDLESS LIST OF MANMADE RULES
In Jesus' day, the Jewish society was the most regulated society
in the world. God gave them just 10 commandments and 21 civil
laws. The religious leaders added another 178 commandments
and 933 civil laws to them. The Pharisees and the scribes
were putting everybody under such close surveillance it was
becoming ridiculous! Jesus was so upset He rebuked them for
their legalism:
"You guide the people, but you are blind! You are
like a person who picks a fly out of a drink and then swallows
a camel!" Matt. 23:24 (NCV)
Jesus was saying this, "You guys are crazy setting up
rules that you yourself can't even keep. You are all nothing
more than just a bunch of hypocrites and phonies! You've lost
your relationship with God and now you're trying to make up
for it by keeping a bunch of rules."
Those words may be scathing but don't they still resonate
in Christianity today? Believers begin in the Spirit. They
have a revelation of God. They experience the saving grace
and enabling power of the Holy Spirit. Then for some reason,
they have this tendency to "go back to the map,"
not willing to continue relying on the Holy Spirit by faith.
What happens when you start relying on the map of legalism
again? You get cursed all over again!
"For as many as are of the works of the law are under
the curse ..." Gal. 3:10
That is the reason why many Christians and churches are so
dry, so dead and so defeated! When we walk by some manmade
laws, we can no longer walk under grace. The moment we put
our trust in some religious system, however good its original
intention may be, we stop trusting God.
"Thus says the LORD: "Cursed is the
man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength,
whose heart departs from the LORD." Jer. 17:5
It can be rather scary not relying on rules and regulations,
but that is the only way to grow up! The only way for a believer
to mature is when he or she is being led by the Holy Spirit—by
grace, through faith!
Like what I have said earlier, I'm coming to my third decade
as a Christian now and I have seen a lot of churches that
profess, "We are not under the law of Moses!" But
in reality, they all have their own little set of rules and
regulations. Take for example:
1. Media: The television is the "devil's
box" and watching it makes one unholy. Reading the newspaper
and listening to radio for world news makes one worldly!
2. Fashion: "Godly" women never
wear makeup or use cosmetics, or have their hair colored!
It is wrong to wear fashionable or trendy clothing. A Christian
has no business visiting an upmarket hair salon. The only
"right" place for a haircut is the neighborhood
barbershop! No denim jeans is allowed in church. Women must
never wear any skirt that shows the ankles. Modern swimwear
is banned. New clothes and jewelry are synonymous with covetousness,
holy people wear as bland as they can and give all their money
to missions! Wearing jade is tantamount to pagan temple worship.
3. Bible: The only "one correct version"
of the Bible is the King James Version. All other translations
will corrupt the reader.
4. Food: Eating seafood or pork will make
a Christian unclean, thus disqualifying him or her from the
pure anointing of God!
5. Festivals: The celebrating of Christmas
is wrong. The Christmas tree is demonic. "Santa"
Claus is really "Satan" in disguise. The Chinese
New Year festivities must not be observed. Christians should
not attend New Year family reunion (thanksgiving) dinners
or wear red outfits on New Year's day. The giving and receiving
of angpows must not be allowed.
6. Worship: Bowing down before your parents
in honor during the wedding tea ceremony is a form of idolatry.
Keeping photos of people and places constitute having false
images around.
7. Recreation: Telling jokes is sinful. Laughing
in church is showing no reverence to God. Playing any card
game, even children's cards, is a form of gambling. Playing
Monopoly is dabbling in greed and materialism. Using puppets
in Sunday School is demonic!
8. Music: Listening or playing music is wrong.
Singing modern choruses is wrong, only hymns are allowed in
church. Listening to any secular, non-Christian music is wrong.
All drums are of the devil. All 4/4 beat is demonic. All songs
in minor keys are demonic. Singing birthday songs in church
is wrong.
9. Prayer and fasting: If you don't pray
early in the morning, you don't love God. If you don't fast
once a week, you have lost your burden for the unsaved.
10. Having babies: Using birth control pills
is an expression of unbelief. If God doesn't want a couple
to have babies, then conception would never take place even
in the absence of contraceptives.
11. Money: Using the credit card is supporting
the Antichrist's "666" system. Saving up money for
old age or buying insurance is walking in fear and doubt!
12. Cars: Driving an Alfa Romeo is promoting
Satan's kingdom because there is the picture of a snake on
the car's emblem.
The list just goes on and on. The point is this: if the laws
of Moses—given by God Himself—couldn't help the
people to live righteously, what makes us think that our little
religious church laws can do the job?
There is another problem with legalism. The rules are never
objective! My list would never match yours. The rules are
often based upon an individual's culture and taste, personal
likes and dislikes.
When I was in secondary school, I did some competitive swimming.
All of us would wear Speedo briefs when we get into the pool.
Yet, when I first went to America to preach, I realized that
most American men don't wear Speedo briefs for swimming. They
put on shorts. In fact, guys who wear Speedo trunks are usually
gay. Well, that's the culture there!
Many of our Singaporean ladies wear sleeveless tank-tops.
Even the most conservative girls along Orchard Road have no
qualms about wearing body-hugging blouses, or putting on a
pair of trousers. Yet, in many countries, ladies are not supposed
to do that! In some parts of Asia, it is improper for a woman
to show her arms or shoulders. And to wear trousers is totally
unfeminine. Can you see that? Rules change from culture to
culture!
When we become legalistic, we start regulating other people's
lives based on what we like or dislike. So, if the wives of
the church elders don't like putting on make-up, it is often
a "sin" for other ladies to wear make-up. If the
elders don't like denim jeans, then it is a sin to wear jeans.
If the elders are conspiracy-minded, then only the KJV is
the correct version!
The sad truth is, anything that is good can be done in a legalistic
way. Giving, witnessing, praying, Bible reading and church
attending are all good. However, in some circles, they are
taught and presented to the people as rules and regulations.
If you don't do this, you are going to get cursed. If you
don't do that, you are going to be judged by God.
What should we do then? Do we just stop praying or soul-winning?
Of course not, but we need to change the motivation factor.
People shouldn't be made to "have to" do something,
we must help them to "want to" do it.
WHAT ABOUT LICENTIOUSNESS?
"But, but, but ... Kong, if we allow people to
exhibit grace and freedom, then wouldn't everybody start doing
whatever's right in his or her own eyes?"
Of course, every truth taken to an extreme is dangerous! The
extreme end from grace on the righteousness spectrum is "licentiousness."
A person is licentious when he excuses himself or gives himself
license to blatantly rebel against God and His Word.
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"God wants me to divorce my wife
so that my real destiny in the ministry can be fulfilled!" |
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"I can't help being a homosexual, God made me
this way!" |
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"I know even if I steal
money from my company, it is for the sake of giving
to world missions. God will surely forgive me later
on!" |
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"Abortion is murdering innocent
unborn babies. God wants me to kill those abortion
doctors and bomb their clinics to take vengeance on
behalf of those babies!" |